Creating A Success Mentality

Having worked with people from different backgrounds over the last few years of my life I have come to the realization that there are no dull people. There are lazy people and underdeveloped people but all people have the potential to do great things. The mind is a rich resource that needs to be invested in and molded in order to see the greatness that is in you manifesting. I have given myself to giving people an opportunity to be great by developing people. The Bible tells us that as a man thinks so is he. In other words your life is the sum total of your thoughts. If I can change your thinking I can change your life. The Bible also says let the wicked man forsake his thoughts, so it is possible for me to deal with my thinking until I am thinking in line with His plan.

What paradigms need changing in your life in order for you to see success? A paradigm is a way of thinking that produces a way of living. It is what motivates us to live in a certain way. Our paradigms determine what we do and how we live and relate with our surroundings. Right paradigms result in successful living and the opposite is true.

We often try and change our lives by running to everyone else and trying to change them as if they are the source of our failure, when in reality we should deal with our heads. Be transformed by renewing your mind. If I can rewire my mind and can change my current reality and live a successful life. Always remember you are the primary person responsible for the quality of life that you will live.

The word transformed is from the word metamorpho where we get the word metamorphosis. Which speak about the change an goes through from egg to worm to larvae in a cocoon till it’s a butterfly and lays more eggs. You can change you life totally until you are beyond recognition.

Having said all this can I add and say it is your responsibility to work on your mindset and get yourself ready to succeed. Success is not accidental it is a process that one goes through to active a set goal. As we continue with this topic for the next few weeks I would like to encourage you to take responsibility over you mind. Fill it with good things and expose it to greatness stretch yourself be inspired by good reading material that exposes you to a world of amazing opportunity. Here is an amazing principle. “If you can draw a clear vision your mind can create a path to make that vision a reality”. A renewed and empowered mind is a great thing to have; it can create many ways to achieve a set goal.

Get you mind renewed with positive affirmations about your life and you will see you life changing. The question to ask now is how can I renew my mind in preparation to do my destiny? Well that's a good question; here are some tips to follow that will help you as they have done many others and me

Read the word of God

Read inspirational and informative books

Get around and see what the world has to offer

Maintain friendships and relationships that provoke greatness in you

Draw up a vision that stretches you and begin to pursue it

Get a life coach who will speech you and help bring the best out of you

Finally use the principle of Auto-suggestion (self suggestion) this means getting into the habit of speaking to yourself the desired reality until you see that it will happen

These ate tried and tested and this will work for you. Can I close by making you and offer. I developed a tool that will help you. Its called ''Success Paradigms 101 '' an amazing tool for introspection and developing a thought process that helps you have a clearly defined vision. This tool will help you change and deposition your life for success within 30 days and guess what its free we can send you and electronic copy if you send us an email request to Pastorxtreme@gmail.com Enjoy yourself and lets meet in the corridors of greatness.

Xtreme Coaching for Xtreme Living

Hi there trust you are good and living life to the full. Being a child of God is about living life to the “max” enjoying everyday and every moment. When I got born again many years ago as a form two student at Mzingwane High School I entered into a great life with Christ but I only really began to live that way when I went to Word of Life Church two years later. It was then that I discovered that Christianity is not a drag, but something totally of the hook. I was taught the Word and principles of victorious living; I was healed of asthma, migraines and chest problems. I began to live what I called “Xtreme living”. Years later when I became the young peoples pastor I was called Pastor Xtreme and that name has stuck to date.

This blog is about coaching you to live the Xtreme Life. I have had a dream to be a life coach for a while now and I am currently studying life coaching because as a pastor I feel I need the relevant skills to coach people to victorious living. Life coaching is about bringing people to a place of “Self actualization” and that distils my reason for existing. I will share personal experiences and learning experiences that I have had in order to help you break out of every limitation in your life. This is an opportunity to interface with me as we talk about different aspects of living the Xtreme Life.

By the way Xtreme Living is not about living a crazy, careless reckless life but it’s about living life as God intended it. Our main coaching manual will be the Bible we will study different people that lived out of the norm in their community and stood out. Did you know that they tell us about 98% of the people in this life live confined, average lives’, that means only about 2% of humanity actually live out of the box. Your environment is designed to keep you in the box and I want to help you realize that the box does not exist it is a figment of an imagination that has been shaped y the devil. You can actually begin to see life differently.

Welcome to the 2%

Break out of ordinary

I mentioned in the intro blog that I want to be your on-line Life coach. I want to help you get out of average living into Xtreme Living. What is Life Coaching all about and do I need a Life Coach? Well glad you asked that question here is an answer that will help you.

What Is Life Coaching?

"Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler." --Henry David Thoreau  

Life Coaching is a profession that is profoundly different from consulting, mentoring, advice, therapy, or counseling. The coaching process addresses specific personal projects, business successes, general conditions and transitions in the client's personal life, relationships or profession by examining what is going on right now, discovering what your obstacles or challenges might be, and choosing a course of action to make your life be what you want it to be.

Wow that must be awesome to have a life coach. For many of you your pastor is your life coach anointed b God to help you through life so it would do you good to go to your pastor and say can you please coach me to my next level. From a soccer perspective look at Sir Alex Ferguson who has coached Manchester United for over 20 years and has led them into many victories, championships and trophies. He is a legend when it comes to greatness in the sporting world. Like him hate him the coach of your favorite team probably has high respect for him, in fact he was probably coached by Ferguson in his sporting days.

But the question is why a coach before we can say why a life coach?