Wednesday, 14 March 2012

Laying the Foundations for Success


Laying Foundations for Success
As you step into 2012. I trust your ducks are in a row. I have always said that there are people that fail because the situation did not give them options then there are others that fail by default. There never was a plan to succeed so when we say they have failed its not really failure its that they never even attempted anything worthwhile.
The Bible tells us in Habakkuk 2 from verse one that you must right the vision down on tablets of stone. In other words the vision must be set permanently and clearly so it can be read and prompt a reaction in the reader. You cannot run passionately and accurately if you are not clear about what you are running for. Forgive me if I sound like a stuck record on this vision thing. My father raised me up to understand vision, when he got to talk about it was as if someone set him alight. That same passion about vision came on me and changed my life. I have seen hundreds of lives changed more by the discovery of God-given vision than by months of preaching.
King Josiah’s life was totally changed when the royal scribe read to him the book of the prophets and they stumbled across a prophecy that was a couple old hundreds years old. The prophecy mentioned him by name and said there be a young man from the house of David Josiah by name who will.... When he heard the words read to him he discovered his passion and reason for living. He tore his cloths went on a fast and was on fire bringing transforming to the nation.
How clear is your assignment and destiny? Is 2012 another wasted year before it even begins. Is your life a waste already or are you living life by design? Are you running after the God vision, or are you just existing?
Here are some simple steps that you can follow that will help you add value into your existence, I do this all the time at the end of each year reviewing what was accomplished the previous year against the set goals. I know that successful hours make successful days which in turn make successful weeks, months and years and this results in a successful life.
As a life coach I often come across people who hope that success comes like the lotto, you get a lucky number and hey there it is success on a big 2 by 4 check and cameras flashing everywhere. Well sorry to burst your bubble, there is more to it than that. In the workbook that we have been distributing we help you go through the 8 principles that are foundational for succeeding in any goal you set for yourself. The challenge often with people is that they often lack the personal motivation to follow through with each step so that they see personal success and of course that is the difference between those that make it and those that don't. Which one are you? Follow these little steps and build a hunger for success in 2012.
1. Set Goals
You need to have goals that your mind and spirit can focus on and pursue. This will include all the necessary areas IE. Relationships, money, career, family, study and so on... Do you have clearly written SMART goals? We recently did a goal setting exercise with our grade two daughter, she found it interesting and amusing. But she came out with a lot more clarity than I have seen in some adults.
To get this right think of your vision and ask yourself the question ''What do I want to achieve?'' right the answers down and you will be close to getting some goals.
Be personally accountable for your own success. You are your greatest asset, if you do nothing no one else can.
2. Write them down clearly
Become disciplined about writing things down. One of the greatest challenges for darker skinned people is we do not like to read and write. All our white friend have somewhat of a library in their homes and few of our darker counterparts have libraries. Why is this so? We do not have a high value on documented wisdom therefore we do not see the importance of writing. God says write the vision. An unwritten vision is not a vision at all.
3. Set good relationships
Get some good motivational people around you people that elude some energy and passion for life and achievement. You need people that will encourage you, rebuke you celebrate you and empower you. If your vision is worth pursuing it will need people around it to make it happen. Become an expert at spotting the kind of human resources you need to fulfill your vision.
Peer relationships, mentorship relationships, and destiny relationships
Accountability relationships all these are important. Can you put a name to each area of a person who has become that to you?
4. Visualize yourself succeed
Take time often to sit and savor the taste of success until you can clearly see that failure is not an option. See yourself hold the trophy, or the title deep. See yourself sitting in that office. See success not failure its inside you already think it through put the action plan into place and go out there and get the trophy.
You cannot achieve what you cannot see. You have to visualize the desired result and sooner or later it will manifest.
Hang around some success so you can develop a taste for it, you will not settle for anything less.
5. Stay motivated
Finally ensure that you keep up the fire of inspiration and motivation. Stay up death and positive about the vision. Nehemiah tells us the joy of the Lord is out strength. Joy will sustain you and make you creative in doing the set vision. There will be moments when you feel you will do the vision next week then on another you feel like it will never happen. Keep your eyes on the vision. A vision that does not inspire motivation and passion is a weak one you might need to look at it and pray and let God re-fire your vision. Let me close by giving tips on staying motivated about your goals.
Know what inspires and motivates you
-Reading
-Seeing
-Talking
-Thinking
-Reading the vision aloud to yourself will help you.
-Watching some good success film
By the way the module on Success Paradigms 101 is still available on special offer. Ask for yours now and we will send it to you.

Build the dream


Build the dream
As you continue in your self-discovery journey you will discover that there are thing that you do almost naturally because your personality and your gift set fits in perfectly to that. If you are able to focus on these natural traits and develop them you will find an area where you will excel. The Bible says ''a man's gift will make room for him and take him before great men” it also says “see a man who is diligent in his business; he will not stand before obscure men'' You ability to discover your gift set and area of assignment and work on it will bring you success and fulfillment.
The discovery of your gift set is the discovery of your life assignment. When you discover the dream you must build it and develop it. The principle of concerted cultivation is needed in Africa. Many young people go through life without ever really discovering themselves or without cultivating their gift set until it is a notable gift that causes them to stand out. I often say going to work is one of the most disheartening things to ever do; you must work hard at going to your assignment not to work. I see so many workers that are not happy, why should they be happy when they are going to work. The discovery of your destiny is the discovery of fulfillment.
Concerted cultivation simply means I discover what I am set to do and I invest time, effort money and other resources with the intent of getting some returns out of the gift. In Africa we mass produce people and give them the same education the same time the same information. We do not take time to know what is in a person with the purpose of developing people into areas of specialty. This means if you do not cultivate the giftings that are in you no one else really cares about you. You need to deliberately discover and develop yourself as an individual. If you do not enroll in an institute that will help you in this area or become a member of a good church that will work on you and develop you in a well-rounded way you will have to jump in the worker queue for the rest of your life.
One on the reasons I took on life coaching as part of my portfolio I realized that I had to give people more than pulpit ministry if they were to succeed. Life coaching has always been a passion I just did not see it that way, pastors need to equip people for living life on earth as much as we do that for heaven. Paul in a way was a coach to Timothy he helped bring the best out of him and that’s what coaches do. You need someone to read you life and help you interpret some of those things that are still a mystery.
I have two interesting personal coaches in my life and I appreciate their role very much. The first one focuses on my giftings as a person and he helps me focus those so that I am more effective as a pastor. He has assisted me with personality profile tools that have given me a clear picture of who I am and why I am. The second coach causes me pain but I love it, he is a fitness coach who makes me sweat and groan. As I do what they call “boxercise” I am getting fitter and stronger. I have always wanted to do all these things but when you do not have a coach who pushes you and helps bring the best out of you the motivation is low. My third coach helped me in a holistic way to come out of the broken home paradigm and become the great leader that I am. This is my pastor, a great man in so many ways. He brought the best out of me by teaching, training, rebuking, correcting, loving and encouraging. I would not have made it this far with him and I am eternally grateful for the input I have from him. 
This brings me to the big question or set of questions that you need to answer for yourself. Your ability to answer these questions will determine your level of success.
What is my personal vision?
What giftings do I possess that will position me for success?
What personal development program should I put myself on that will enhance my chances of becoming an outstanding person in this area?
Do I need a personal coach to enhance my proficiency in the desired area of success?
Coming from a typical black family back ground I can confidently say that its easy to grow up and neglect some key factors in your life that would have made you more successful in life. I was fortunate to go to what was called a “group A school” where there was about 45 black people. It exposed me to a new way of thinking. I developed a confidence and a healthy sense of entitlement. There is a difference between people that went through the process of concerted cultivation and those that don't. Those young people that were developed stood out in the sports field and the academic field. They had the CV that was full of accolades and awards. Leadership seemed to come naturally but it was because of concerted cultivation.
I encourage you to look at each of these questions and answer them as well as you can, this will help you know yourself better and be able to plan your program moving forward. In order to build the dream and make it a reality you have to take these steps seriously. Having a coach helps because he is not as concerned about you comfort as he is about your success and significance.
I recently started a company “Success Paradigms 101” that is designed to offer you tools that are affordable, user friendly and effective. These tools give you an opportunity to take your place among the great, we believe that we can help you make it happen but you have to have the desire to win. Watch this space for more details and we get ready to launch fully in March 2012. If you have not yet gotten your free foundational tool the Success Paradigms 101 module send your request to pastortich@pwmi.co.za and I will gladly send it to you. To see more of what it’s all about follow this link http://youtu.be/b2L_8CPmUM4
Remember build your dream no one else will, we are all busy building our own dreams. At Success Paradigms 101 our dream is to build yours.
Are you developing yourself?

Wednesday, 22 February 2012

Build the dream


As you continue in your self-discovery journey you will discover that there are thing that you do almost naturally because your personality and your gift set fits in perfectly to that. If you are able to focus on these natural traits and develop them you will find an area where you will excel. The Bible says ''a man's gift will make room for him and take him before great men” it also says “see a man who is diligent in his business; he will not stand before obscure men'' You ability to discover your gift set and area of assignment and work on it will bring you success and fulfillment.
The discovery of your gift set is the discovery of your life assignment. When you discover the dream you must build it and develop it. The principle of concerted cultivation is needed in Africa. Many young people go through life without ever really discovering themselves or without cultivating their gift set until it is a notable gift that causes them to stand out. I often say going to work is one of the most disheartening things to ever do; you must work hard at going to your assignment not to work. I see so many workers that are not happy, why should they be happy when they are going to work. The discovery of your destiny is the discovery of fulfillment.
Concerted cultivation simply means I discover what I am set to do and I invest time, effort money and other resources with the intent of getting some returns out of the gift. In Africa we mass produce people and give them the same education the same time the same information. We do not take time to know what is in a person with the purpose of developing people into areas of specialty. This means if you do not cultivate the giftings that are in you no one else really cares about you. You need to deliberately discover and develop yourself as an individual. If you do not enroll in an institute that will help you in this area or become a member of a good church that will work on you and develop you in a well-rounded way you will have to jump in the worker queue for the rest of your life.
One on the reasons I took on life coaching as part of my portfolio I realized that I had to give people more than pulpit ministry if they were to succeed. Life coaching has always been a passion I just did not see it that way, pastors need to equip people for living life on earth as much as we do that for heaven. Paul in a way was a coach to Timothy he helped bring the best out of him and that’s what coaches do. You need someone to read you life and help you interpret some of those things that are still a mystery.
I have two interesting personal coaches in my life and I appreciate their role very much. The first one focuses on my giftings as a person and he helps me focus those so that I am more effective as a pastor. He has assisted me with personality profile tools that have given me a clear picture of who I am and why I am. The second coach causes me pain but I love it, he is a fitness coach who makes me sweat and groan. As I do what they call “boxercise” I am getting fitter and stronger. I have always wanted to do all these things but when you do not have a coach who pushes you and helps bring the best out of you the motivation is low. My third coach helped me in a holistic way to come out of the broken home paradigm and become the great leader that I am. This is my pastor, a great man in so many ways. He brought the best out of me by teaching, training, rebuking, correcting, loving and encouraging. I would not have made it this far with him and I am eternally grateful for the input I have from him. 
This brings me to the big question or set of questions that you need to answer for yourself. Your ability to answer these questions will determine your level of success.
What is my personal vision?
What giftings do I possess that will position me for success?
What personal development program should I put myself on that will enhance my chances of becoming an outstanding person in this area?
Do I need a personal coach to enhance my proficiency in the desired area of success?
Coming from a typical black family back ground I can confidently say that its easy to grow up and neglect some key factors in your life that would have made you more successful in life. I was fortunate to go to what was called a “group A school” where there was about 45 black people. It exposed me to a new way of thinking. I developed a confidence and a healthy sense of entitlement. There is a difference between people that went through the process of concerted cultivation and those that don't. Those young people that were developed stood out in the sports field and the academic field. They had the CV that was full of accolades and awards. Leadership seemed to come naturally but it was because of concerted cultivation.
I encourage you to look at each of these questions and answer them as well as you can, this will help you know yourself better and be able to plan your program moving forward. In order to build the dream and make it a reality you have to take these steps seriously. Having a coach helps because he is not as concerned about you comfort as he is about your success and significance.
I recently started a company “Success Paradigms 101” that is designed to offer you tools that are affordable, user friendly and effective. These tools give you an opportunity to take your place among the great, we believe that we can help you make it happen but you have to have the desire to win. Watch this space for more details and we get ready to launch fully in March 2012. If you have not yet gotten your free foundational tool the Success Paradigms 101 module send your request to pastortich@pwmi.co.za and I will gladly send it to you. To see more of what it’s all about follow this link http://youtu.be/b2L_8CPmUM4
Remember build your dream no one else will, we are all busy building our own dreams. At Success Paradigms 101 our dream is to build yours.
Are you developing yourself?

Monday, 23 January 2012

Creating A Success Mentality


Having worked with people from different backgrounds over the last few years of my life I have come to the realization that there are no dull people. There are lazy people and underdeveloped people but all people have the potential to do great things. The mind is a rich resource that needs to be invested in and molded in order to see the greatness that is in you manifesting. I have given myself to giving people an opportunity to be great by developing people. The Bible tells us that as a man thinks so is he. In other words your life is the sum total of your thoughts. If I can change your thinking I can change your life. The Bible also says let the wicked man forsake his thoughts, so it is possible for me to deal with my thinking until I am thinking in line with His plan.
What paradigms need changing in your life in order for you to see success? A paradigm is a way of thinking that produces a way of living. It is what motivates us to live in a certain way. Our paradigms determine what we do and how we live and relate with our surroundings. Right paradigms result in successful living and the opposite is true.
We often try and change our lives by running to everyone else and trying to change them as if they are the source of our failure, when in reality we should deal with our heads. Be transformed by renewing your mind. If I can rewire my mind and can change my current reality and live a successful life. Always remember you are the primary person responsible for the quality of life that you will live.
The word transformed is from the word metamorpho where we get the word metamorphosis. Which speak about the change an goes through from egg to worm to larvae in a cocoon till it’s a butterfly and lays more eggs. You can change you life totally until you are beyond recognition.
Having said all this can I add and say it is your responsibility to work on your mindset and get yourself ready to succeed. Success is not accidental it is a process that one goes through to active a set goal. As we continue with this topic for the next few weeks I would like to encourage you to take responsibility over you mind. Fill it with good things and expose it to greatness stretch yourself be inspired by good reading material that exposes you to a world of amazing opportunity. Here is an amazing principle. “If you can draw a clear vision your mind can create a path to make that vision a reality”. A renewed and empowered mind is a great thing to have; it can create many ways to achieve a set goal.
Get you mind renewed with positive affirmations about your life and you will see you life changing. The question to ask now is how can I renew my mind in preparation to do my destiny? Well that's a good question; here are some tips to follow that will help you as they have done many others and me
Read the word of God
Read inspirational and informative books
Get around and see what the world has to offer
Maintain friendships and relationships that provoke greatness in you
Draw up a vision that stretches you and begin to pursue it
Get a life coach who will speech you and help bring the best out of you
Finally use the principle of Auto-suggestion (self suggestion) this means getting into the habit of speaking to yourself the desired reality until you see that it will happen
These ate tried and tested and this will work for you. Can I close by making you and offer. I developed a tool that will help you. Its called ''Success Paradigms 101 '' an amazing tool for introspection and developing a thought process that helps you have a clearly defined vision. This tool will help you change and deposition your life for success within 30 days and guess what its free we can send you and electronic copy if you send us an email request to Pastorxtreme@gmail.com Enjoy yourself and lets meet in the corridors of greatness.

Tuesday, 3 January 2012

Xtreme Coaching for Xtreme Living

Hi there trust you are good and living life to the full. Being a child of God is about living life to the “max” enjoying everyday and every moment. When I got born again many years ago as a form two student at Mzingwane High School I entered into a great life with Christ but I only really began to live that way when I went to Word of Life Church two years later. It was then that I discovered that Christianity is not a drag, but something totally of the hook. I was taught the Word and principles of victorious living; I was healed of asthma, migraines and chest problems. I began to live what I called “Xtreme living”. Years later when I became the young peoples pastor I was called Pastor Xtreme and that name has stuck to date.

This blog is about coaching you to live the Xtreme Life. I have had a dream to be a life coach for a while now and I am currently studying life coaching because as a pastor I feel I need the relevant skills to coach people to victorious living. Life coaching is about bringing people to a place of “Self actualization” and that distils my reason for existing. I will share personal experiences and learning experiences that I have had in order to help you break out of every limitation in your life. This is an opportunity to interface with me as we talk about different aspects of living the Xtreme Life.

By the way Xtreme Living is not about living a crazy, careless reckless life but it’s about living life as God intended it. Our main coaching manual will be the Bible we will study different people that lived out of the norm in their community and stood out. Did you know that they tell us about 98% of the people in this life live confined, average lives’, that means only about 2% of humanity actually live out of the box. Your environment is designed to keep you in the box and I want to help you realize that the box does not exist it is a figment of an imagination that has been shaped y the devil. You can actually begin to see life differently.

Monday, 2 January 2012

Welcome to the 2%

Break out of ordinary

I mentioned in the intro blog that I want to be your on-line Life coach. I want to help you get out of average living into Xtreme Living. What is Life Coaching all about and do I need a Life Coach? Well glad you asked that question here is an answer that will help you.

What Is Life Coaching?

"Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler." --Henry David Thoreau  

Life Coaching is a profession that is profoundly different from consulting, mentoring, advice, therapy, or counseling. The coaching process addresses specific personal projects, business successes, general conditions and transitions in the client's personal life, relationships or profession by examining what is going on right now, discovering what your obstacles or challenges might be, and choosing a course of action to make your life be what you want it to be.

Wow that must be awesome to have a life coach. For many of you your pastor is your life coach anointed b God to help you through life so it would do you good to go to your pastor and say can you please coach me to my next level. From a soccer perspective look at Sir Alex Ferguson who has coached Manchester United for over 20 years and has led them into many victories, championships and trophies. He is a legend when it comes to greatness in the sporting world. Like him hate him the coach of your favorite team probably has high respect for him, in fact he was probably coached by Ferguson in his sporting days.

But the question is why a coach before we can say why a life coach?